SCAMMED OR NOT…HOW DO YOU KNOW?
Whenever you enter into a new "Chat" relationship with a Filipina woman, it should be your top priority to determine the seriousness and the motive of the girl you are chatting with. After all, if you were to buy a car, wouldn't you know everything about that car before buying it, even taking a test drive before paying any cash towards it? Don't just look at her beauty, her sexiness or her body, but find out who she "really" is. Take the relationship for a test drive.
Jerry's Cafe Services will help you "Test-Drive" the relationship and will help you determine exactly what that beautiful, "sweet" thing's motive is. Is she seriously looking for a relationship as you are? Or, more importantly, is she seriously looking for an income making opportunity so she can help support her, her husband and her family? One thing is for sure...you would NEVER, EVER PAY CASH BEFORE YOU TEST DRIVE A CAR, so, never pay a Filipina cash BEFORE YOU TEST DRIVE THE RELATIONSHIP.
HOW TO DETECT A SCAMMER:
A true scammer will have many different "sob" stories and will be really good at making you feel sorry for her. It's easy to fall for this trick because she's so beautiful and seems so sweet when you see her on the web cam. She will tell you things like "I had to drop out of college because I couldn't pay my tuition"; or "We had to take my Mom to the emergency room today but they won't help her until I can give them a deposit"; or "I won't be able to chat to you anymore because I can't afford the Internet Café fee"; or our favorite one, "Our Carabao (Ox) broke his leg yesterday and we won't be able to harvest our crop unless we replace the Carabao and we'll lose the farm if that happens. There are thousands of other "sob" stories, but keep this one fact in mind. A TRUE HONEST FILIPINA WILL NEVER ASK YOU FOR MONEY BECAUSE SHE IS TOO SHY TO DO SO AND BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TAKE A CHANCE YOU MAY GET OFFENDED AND STOP YOUR RELATIONSHIP! That's the bottom line, guys!
HOW TO TEST DRIVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP:
1. Chat with her as often as you can…even twice a day if possible.
2. Never, Ever Offer To Help Her, even if she gives you some sad stories.
3. If she asks you for cash within the first 10-15 chat sessions, dump her immediately. There are just too many other young, beautiful, girls in the Philippines looking for the exact same thing you are. Don't waste your time on this one.
4. Openly discuss scams with her, even going as far as asking her if she's a scammer. Then, tell her that you will have to stop this relationship because you think she is a scammer. Yes, it's a risky suggestion, but let us tell you what will happen. First, if she really is a scammer, she will get really angry with you and will stop the relationship first, because it's Philippine custom to do that. Second, if she really is a scammer, she'll know you won't send money and knowing that will mean she's wasting her time with you and she will stop the relationship. Third, if she isn't a scammer, she will be hurt, but she will never cut the relationship because she wants to prove to you she isn't a scammer. To do that, she will NEVER ask you for money and would even refuse cash if you offered it. Why? Because she values the relationship more than she values the money, that's why. A true, honest Filipina will NEVER ask for money because she's too shy to do so. She's also too fearful you would take it the wrong way and end what she wants the most…a love relationship. Yes, she'll be hurt, but in the long run your relationship will prosper, will grow much stronger, and best of all, you'll have peace of mind.
5. Send her gifts! Test her with the gifts we provide at Jerry's Café Services. Watch her reactions on the webcam when she gets the gifts. When you see the love and happiness in her eyes each time she receives a gift, and she never asks for cash, then you know without a doubt, she is sincere and you have found yourself a "winner". Don't ask her what she wants, just surprise her with the gifts. Chat cards are the most popular gift to give because maybe she really does need help with her Internet Café fees.
6. If the girl tells you the gifts are too expensive, just send cash and she can buy them cheaper, then beware…she's a scammer. A true Filipina will never mention anything about something being "too expensive", or "send cash", because a gift from you will bring happiness to her heart and will prove your love to her, no matter what it is or how much it costs. We have found out that scammers are using Jerry's Café Services to help run scams on unsuspecting guys. They register the man, the man wants to get her a gift, but is told by the same girl who registered him that the prices are too expensive, just send me cash and I'll get it myself. You end up falling into the same trap they wanted you to fall into from the very beginning…sending cash!
7. Still not sure? Then Jerry's Café Services can refer you to a private investigator, who will do a complete, thorough check for you. This private investigator is a foreigner, living here in Cebu City, who is married to a Filipina himself. They run their investigations with the woman gaining friendship with your chat mate and learning all the inside information from the girl. How? Chikka chikka…that's how. All Filipinas love to gossip (chikka) and once your chat mate becomes close to this investigator's wife which will only take 10-15 minutes, the truth comes out every time. Sometimes much more information than is needed. In other words, she'll be the one to ruin what she has going, or confirm the love she feels for you. Of course, there is an investigators fee, but many times, the result justifies the fee.
IN SUMMATION:
We hope this information will help you in your quest for happiness with your chat mate. That is our goal here at Jerry's Café Services and was the main reason us "Kanos" started this website. We both went through a "scam" relationship and wanted to do everything we could to help other men from around the world from having to go through the same thing we did.
If we are successful with helping your relationship, we would love to hear from you with your success story. As a matter of fact, we would also love to hear your "scam" story and if you approve, would even like to include it in a future newsletter. And, finally, please keep Jerry's Café Services in mind when it's time for gift giving.
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